"I Guess I'll stop posting about such things. If that's what you want."
That's not what I said. In fact, I said explicitly that you should post anything you want under chat. What I said was that you shouldn't get your hopes too high.
Here, let me put on my Lone Psychiatrist costume, and tell you what I think. I think you have some very strong defensive mechanisms in place so that you translate what people actually say into what you want to hear. For example, you translate "I don't have the expertise to help with codeine addiction" into "I don't want you to talk about your codeine addiction". I also don't have the expertise to break down defensive habits -- that takes a professional and takes years.
Sound effect: Galoop, galoop, galoop
Maw: "Who was that masked man, Paw?"
Paw: "I don't know, Maw, but I'm cured, I'm cured!"
Maw: "Are you really cured, Paw?"
Paw: "Sure I am, just feel my nose."
From "The Lone Psychiatrist" by Stan Freeberg